When I was little, like most young girls one of the things we most desired was to wear makeup.  We wanted to have the darkest red or pink lips, painted nails and adorn the highest heels.  This was a combo ready to make us feel...

For the month of February we have been covering the different phases of relationships and chatting about nurturing, respecting and embracing your relationship, whether you're navigating singledom, dating or marriage. Before we wrap up the end of relationship month, I thought I'd share some of...

The prevailing culture believes it's inappropriate for women of marriageable age to remain single for a long time. This ideology is adopted by several communities, which has resulted in the mistreatment of unmarried women. Inequity is their daily ordeal at workplaces and social gatherings. Oftentimes...

A utilized singledom phase gives rise to a godly woman fit for the master's use, who will in turn build a godly home. Therefore, singledom is a building phase. This stage allows you to plough the soil of your heart, plant beneficial seeds, water your...

When I was a teenager and living with my grandparents, who are Christian missionaries and pastors, I remember being bored and having my gran point out her book shelf that was filled with theology, bible studies, and self-help books. My response was somewhat dramatic when...

Waiting is a phase of singledom, after all, other stages have been experienced. Understanding the transition, building and inner satisfaction phase of singledom makes the waiting stage fascinating. All phases are important and necessary. Hence, skipping one phase equals termination of the next stage. The waiting...

But godliness with contentment is great gain. Are you the type that grumbles when things are inadequate for you? Or, are you battling with discontentment about your personality? You must know that discontentment gives rise to destructive behaviors when not dealt with. Therefore, it's vital...

Out of the many gifts in our lives that God has given us to steward, sexuality has always been one of the most difficult. The danger, of course, lies in believing that each of us is alone in figuring out answers to complex questions to...

When I occasionally re-think life’s choices, I am often led to a place of frenzy then followed by a trio of sarcasm, irony, and some doses of melancholy. It usually concludes mentally in a series of unfortunate events. I must concede, the latter baffles me,...