Kate Walsh

Kate is the current owner and editor of Cup of Faith. She is a blogger who loves Jesus, loves to read, and currently lives in Johannesburg with her husband.

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Heritage Day in South Africa is one of my favourite times of the year. Streets and schools fill with colour as people proudly wear their traditional attire – bright shweshwe, elegant Indian saris, dignified isiXhosa beadwork, African print shirts, and so much more. Braais are lit, families gather, and the air is alive with the reminder that this nation is a beautiful mosaic of cultures, languages, and traditions.

But as someone who is not originally from South Africa, I experience Heritage Day a little differently. I love celebrating with my friends, yet I am also aware of the tension that comes with being a “makwerekwere” (foreigner) here. South Africa has known its share of xenophobia – fear or rejection of people from other nations. I have felt it in looks, in whispered words, sometimes even in outright hostility. And yet, I’ve also experienced the opposite: kindness, hospitality, and a genuine spirit of ubuntu that reflects something of God’s heart.

It’s in this tension – between rejection and welcome – that I find myself reflecting deeply on what diversity means in the Kingdom of God.

God’s Design for Diversity

When I read Scripture, I’m struck by the fact that God is not afraid of difference. He delights in it. From the very beginning, creation testifies to this: mountains and valleys, deserts and seas, countless varieties of birds and flowers. Diversity is God’s signature.

And then He made humanity, not from one mould but destined to multiply across the earth into countless tribes, tongues, and nations. All carrying His image, all reflecting His glory in unique ways. The promise God gave to Abraham in Genesis 12:3 ESV, that “in you all the families of the earth shall be blessed”, was never about one nation alone. God’s story was always global.

As a foreigner, that gives me hope. My belonging in the Kingdom of God is not limited by my passport, my skin colour, or my accent. It is secured in Christ.

Diversity in the Church

When I walk into a South African church, I sometimes feel out of place. My accent marks me as different. My traditions are not the same. There are moments I worry: Do I really belong here? Will I ever be fully accepted?
But then I remember Pentecost in Acts 2. When the Holy Spirit fell on the disciples, the miracle was not that everyone suddenly spoke the same language. The miracle was that people from many nations heard the good news in their own languages: Parthians, Medes, Egyptians, Arabs, and more. God affirmed their cultural uniqueness instead of erasing it.

That tells me something powerful: in God’s Kingdom, I don’t have to lose my identity to belong. I don’t have to stop being who I am, where I come from, or what I carry in order to be accepted. Instead, my difference is part of the richness of the family of God.

And that also means the differences of my South African brothers and sisters – whether Zulu, Xhosa, Sotho, Afrikaner, Coloured, or Indian – are not threats but treasures. Together, we display something of the vastness of God that we could never show on our own.

Facing Xenophobia with a Kingdom Vision

But here’s where the ache comes in. We know South Africa has struggled with xenophobia – waves of violence, rejection, suspicion, and scapegoating of foreigners. As a foreigner, I’ve felt the sting of those realities.

It’s not unique to South Africa, of course. Across the world, foreigners are often viewed with suspicion. Yet the gospel confronts this head-on.

Paul writes in Ephesians 2:19 ESV, “So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God”

What a beautiful truth. In Christ, there are no outsiders. No one is “less than.” No one is disposable. The dividing walls of hostility between Jew and Gentile, local and foreigner, insider and outsider, have been torn down by the cross.

When xenophobia raises its head, we as believers are called to resist it with the Kingdom vision of welcome. To see each other not as threats, but as family. To honour the image of God in the stranger. To make space for one another’s stories, food, languages, and songs – not just out of politeness, but because the Kingdom is incomplete without them.

Heritage Day Through Kingdom Eyes

So, what does Heritage Day mean for someone like me, a foreigner, yet also a believer? For me, it is both a celebration and an invitation.

It’s a celebration because I get to see the beauty of South Africa’s diversity on full display: the many cultures, languages, and traditions that make this nation unique. It’s also a celebration because I know that in the Kingdom of God, this diversity points to something eternal, a glimpse of the heavenly multitude John saw in Revelation 7:9 ESV:

“After this I looked, and behold, a great multitude that no one could number, from every nation, from all tribes and peoples and languages, standing before the throne and before the Lamb.”

But Heritage Day is also an invitation: an invitation for us, as the church, to embody this Kingdom reality here and now. To look past our fears and prejudices. To choose love over suspicion. To embrace the foreigner as brother or sister. To stand together, across lines of culture and nationality, and declare with one voice: “Salvation belongs to our God.”

Lessons for Us as Believers

Here are a few heartfelt reflections on how we can live out this vision, both as South Africans and as those who’ve made this nation our home:

1. See diversity as a gift, not a threat. Our differences enrich us. They help us see God’s glory more fully. They challenge our assumptions and expand our understanding of His love.
2. Create spaces of belonging. For those of us who are locals, we can be intentional in welcoming foreigners; not just with polite words, but with genuine inclusion. For those of us who are foreigners, we can resist the temptation to withdraw, and instead offer our unique perspectives and gifts to the community.
3. Stand against xenophobia. Silence can never be an option. As the church, we are called to be a prophetic voice against injustice. When we see prejudice, violence, or rejection, we must speak up and embody the radical welcome of Christ.
4. Celebrate heritage as worship. Our songs, languages, and traditions are not just cultural markers; they can be offerings to God. When we bring the fullness of who we are into worship, we give Him glory in ways that only we can.

A Foretaste of Heaven

Heritage Day reminds me of a truth that steadies my heart when I feel like an outsider: my ultimate citizenship is in heaven. My passport may say one country, I may live in another, and sometimes I may feel caught in-between. But in Christ, I know where I belong.

The Kingdom of God is my home. And it is a home where every tribe, every language, and every nation have a place. Where foreigners are not strangers, but family. Where xenophobia and division will finally be no more.

So, this Heritage Day, as you wear your traditional attire, share a meal, or tell your family stories, I will be celebrating alongside you; not just as a guest in your land, but as a fellow citizen of God’s Kingdom. Together, we are a foretaste of heaven, declaring to the world that the Kingdom of God is both diverse and united, both colourful and whole, both deeply rooted in our differences and eternally bound by the love of Christ.

Final Reflection

Diversity in the Kingdom is not just beautiful – it is purposeful. God designed it. Christ redeemed it. And the Spirit empowers it.

So let us not fear it, reject it, or weaponize it. Instead, let us embrace it, celebrate it, and live it out in the way we welcome one another. For in the end, we will discover that our differences are not dividing lines but brushstrokes in God’s masterpiece.

This Heritage Day, may we catch a glimpse of that masterpiece. And may we, as South Africans and foreigners alike, choose to live as one family in Christ – joyfully diverse, gloriously united, and deeply loved. Will you join me in living out this vision of diversity as God’s beautiful design?

Editor’s call to action: Which of Marthe’s reflections are important for you today?

1. See diversity as a gift, not a threat.
2. Create spaces of belonging. 
3. Stand against xenophobia.
4. Celebrate heritage as worship.

Let us know in the comments!

Marthe Badibanga

A volunteer blogger whose passion is to see the people of God become all that the LORD intended them to be in their personal relationships with Him that overflow into their daily lives.

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If you’ve never read Battlefield of the Mind by Joyce Meyer, you need to! This book is a must for anyone who wants to better understand and overcome the battles of life. If it were possible, I’d give the book a ten-star rating.

Joyce understands that most, if not all, of the battles we face in life begin in our minds. She provides scriptures, illustrations, and personal insight on dealing with these battles Biblically. Her personal application of the disciplines she teaches in Battlefield of the Mind gives it an authentic flavor that is a rare find.

What I learned from Battlefield of the Mind

It wasn’t difficult for me to pinpoint weaknesses in my thought life. Joyce’s insights into the scriptures she shared in the book were rich and revealing! I made a list of the scriptures in the chapters that spoke to my situation and began meditating on them during my morning devotions. I found this exercise helpful. Through it, I learned that the Bible is more than just a story to read; it is filled with truth that can change my life if I let it.

I was challenged to change my negative thought patterns and instead focus on God’s promises for my life. This proved difficult because I’ve spent many years stuck in negative thought patterns. However, over time, I have found it better to live with a positive God attitude than with the negative one I was accustomed to.

God’s blessings, I learned, aren’t based on my merit but on what God knows I’m ready to receive. I learned this from her description of the Israelites’ 40-year journey through the wilderness on their way to the Promised Land. This journey should have taken less than two weeks. Their wandering was caused by their disobedience, not by God’s punishment. This encourages me to take less time trying to figure things out on my own and to trust in God’s plan and guidance. Think less, trust more!

In her down-to-earth manner, Joyce says that “stinkin’ thoughts produce stinkin’ actions.” This is so true! The more I rehearse negative thoughts, the more prone I am to act negatively. It’s a battle to capture those thoughts when they arise, understand they’re lies, and set them aside.

What I took away from Battlefield of the Mind

1. The mind is the main battlefield, not our outer circumstances.
2. The victory is not won all at once; it takes time and discipline.
3. There will be a battle in my mind every day.
4. I must choose to take my negative thoughts captive.
5. I must be aware of my thought life and what I’m thinking about.
6. I can have the mind of Christ if I choose it.
7. To live the life God intends for me to live, I must choose to have God’s mindset.

Who should read Battlefield of the Mind?

I highly recommend this book to anyone who struggles with negative thoughts. It should be on the bookshelf for reference when dealing with them. I especially recommend it for those who struggle with anxiety, depression, and a poor self-image—this includes most, if not all, of us! I have read “Battlefield of the Mind“ many times. Each time I read it, I am reminded that God’s thoughts for me are much better than my own.

The truths in Battlefield of the Mind are vital for living above the “stinkin’ thinkin’” we are so prone to. I know my life has changed in the years since I read it – and it will continue to change as I keep applying God’s Word daily.

Lea Peters

Lea Peters has been a pastor’s wife and missionary since 1987. She has served alongside her husband, Jamie, planting churches and establishing faith-based community outreaches in Africa. She has four children and two grandchildren.

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It took my husband and I months and maybe years to get this right. Finances are a mammoth adult responsibility. The Bible addresses the stewardship of wealth directly and indirectly across the Old and New Testaments. It’s a topic that I’ve prayed over continually. But there was one key scripture that really unlocked the rest of the game for us.

Proverbs 27:23-27:

Be sure you know the condition of your flocks,

    give careful attention to your herds;

24 for riches do not endure forever,

    and a crown is not secure for all generations.

25 When the hay is removed and new growth appears

    and the grass from the hills is gathered in,

26 the lambs will provide you with clothing,

    and the goats with the price of a field.

27 You will have plenty of goats’ milk to feed your family

    and to nourish your female servants.

It took hearing this advice from multiple people in both secular and Christian settings for it to eventually sink in.

For anything to change we have to know what we’re dealing with.

We have to know our numbers.

Specifically, we have to pay attention to what is currently happening.

Not daydreaming about how much money it would be nice to have to buy the ultimate family home. Not regretting the past use of credit resulting in debt payments. Not messing around on ChatGPT to figure out a killer investment plan. What’s happening right now?

There’s a principle to this proverb. The right steps towards success start with paying attention. It’s as simple as that. God needs us to be honest with the current situation and listen to the story our money is telling us right now.

For us, knowing “the condition of your flocks” meant careful financial tracking of our expenditure. This is one habit that has drastically changed the game. We’ve tweaked it over time and we don’t get it perfect every month but most months it looks like this:

Stage 1: Forecasting

1. Identifying upcoming expenses
2. Planning for unknown expenses
3. Identifying income for the month (as a freelance earner, I have my income ready a month ahead of time so that I have the month to collect my invoices and send it over to the household bank account by the 1st)

Stage 2: Budgeting

1. Putting these all into a spreadsheet before the first pay day. Together. Some items in the budget are completely fixed: debit orders. The rest are moderately fixed: miscellaneous, groceries, travel. We also have a small no judgement fun spend we allocate to each other as pocket money. It turns out it’s smarter to have as few categories as possible.
2. We withdraw cash for groceries. This has honestly revolutionised my spending. This wouldn’t be a groundbreaking strategy for everyone. Some people find physical cash a hassle. Some people are really good at digital tracking. But using the ‘envelope system’ for just this one spending category has helped us tremendously. I split the withdrawals into 3: Day 1 – 10 gets about 45% of the grocery budget to include pantry items for the month. Day 11 – 20 gets 30% and Day 21 – 30 gets 25% as there are usually leftovers in the fridge and freezer.

Stage 3: Live Tracking

1. I track three times a month and let my husband know what we have remaining in the ‘unfixed’ spending categories (travel, groceries, miscellaneous). This has helped us to stay on the same page, encourage each other, and keep our spending habits conscious rather than be at the mercy of our whims.
2. We have an agreed cut off amount for big purchases. If the purchase is over a certain number, and it’s not expected, we discuss it with each other prior to purchasing.

There are other things we do too of course, in the vein of long term financial planning and risk management. But the wisdom of God is that a long-term vision goes hand in hand with today’s work. 

Has God ever given you a big breakthrough in the way you handle your personal finances? Share it in the comments below!

Kate Walsh

Kate is the current owner and editor of Cup of Faith. She is a blogger who loves Jesus, loves to read, and currently lives in Johannesburg with her husband.

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Recently, my husband tried to purchase a couple of groceries using cash as he had left his wallet containing his bank card at home. Unfortunately, the store owner would not accept one of his notes because it had an ink stain on it, which apparently marks potential security issues. To be honest, he was a little disgruntled. “How many hands has this note passed between?” he complained to me, “And no one has had a problem with it until now!”

I realised there was a lesson in this — not just that we should check our change more carefully from now on to avoid accepting damaged bank notes! I couldn’t get the old saying out of my head, “the buck stops here.”
This is an interesting saying. I had always thought that the “buck” referred to money, but it has an even more interesting meaning, which a quick Google search revealed; the term “buck” comes from an old poker term. In the 19th century, a “buck” was a marker (usually a buckhorn knife) used to indicate whose turn it was to deal the cards. When it was your turn, the “buck” was passed to you. If you didn’t want to deal, you could “pass the buck” to someone else. So essentially the “buck” represents responsibility, and you can either pass on responsibility, or you can accept the responsibility.

Passing on the buck

When I reflect on the stained bank note in light of the above saying, I realise that it was someone’s responsibility to put a stop to the defaced bank note and exchange it at the bank. Did others (like us), not notice the stain on the bank note? Did they want to avoid the awkwardness bought on by refusing the bank note and then were they unwilling to take on the responsibility of making a trip to the bank to take the bank note out of circulation?

For me, the ink stain and the “buck” present a striking analogy for our spirituality. When we accept sin into our lives personally or we accept sin in other believers lives by staying silent, are we allowing an exchange of compromised values and thereby diluting the strength of our collective testimony? It is well known that our lives are testimonies of Jesus to the secular world, as well as to each other. Whether it’s intentional or not, most of us have believers we look up to — and at the same time, there are often younger believers watching and learning from us, even if we don’t realise it. This is the cycle of discipleship and one that helps a continuous flow of nourishment and growth.

This caused me to think deeply about my own life and what immediately came to mind was a new friend who has lately been making lifestyle decisions which could lead them to compromising their close relationship with Jesus. Because I did not feel like it was my place to point out the dangers of this to them, I was passive and permissive in my response, merely encouraging them to keep Jesus involved rather than outright pointing them to scripture to reevaluate their choices. Perhaps my hope was that more mature believers would take on that responsibility, and so I was essentially, “passing on the buck.”

The Buck Stops Here

There are other areas in which this analogy may apply, but it’s not always easy to know where our responsibility lies in a world where irreverent principles are intertwined into our fast-paced lives. Is having more than one drink with work colleagues, okay? Is spending money to indulge in luxury holidays, okay? What about the groceries we buy, how are our daily purchases contributing to the deterioration of our environment, the beautiful earth God gifted to us?

If we continue down this train of thought, it can become quite overwhelming. We must remember that God has gifted us with His Holy Spirit to help us navigate these daily decisions, listening to His prompting, “And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Helper, to be with you forever—the Spirit of truth.” (John 14: 16 – 17 NIV).

While there are still areas in my own life that are not perfect, I know that I can trust in God’s promise that, “…He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 1: 6 NIV). And this promise of growth and change are evident when I realise that things that were previously permissible to me, are no longer permissible and this gives me encouragement. I realise I do not need to be puritanical in my approach to faith-based living by cutting off everything secular, but I must be aware of the Holy Spirit’s prompting, which often begins with the small things. Once you can make “the buck stop here”, in those areas, you will feel yourself more emboldened and prompted to draw the line in other areas.

Where does the buck stop in entertainment?

One area where my husband and I have decided to make “the buck stop here” in our lives is in our entertainment. It is difficult because while there is quality Christian entertainment out there, there’s not enough of it. Consequently, we do indulge in secular entertainment, but we have strategically placed a cross above our television screen so that we can always be reminded of why Jesus had to suffer, and therefore do we want to be entertained by it? The rife usage of blaspheming in even the lower age restricted content means that we have often found ourselves heavily invested in a show, but having to abruptly switch it off because of this conviction.

This of course is a conviction that God has made in our household, but not everybody’s pace is the same, and not everyone’s strongholds are the same. Therefore, so long as there is no direct scriptural reference to guide us otherwise, what God may call me to give up and “make the buck stop here,” may not be the same as for you. But I do believe that in everything, we should measure the action, the sight, the audio, whatever is passing through our lives in whatever form, next to the cross. Even if you don’t have a physical cross to place next to that book, that conversation, that mobile screen, you can visualise it to be reminded of three things:

1. If you have allowed sin and vices into your life, your hands, eyes and ears have been redeemed and renewed by the cross and by this grace, you have power to reject it
2. The cross covers even the ones who introduce sin into your life
3. Because Jesus suffered for them too, the responsibility lies with you alone to reject the sin for which Jesu suffered, as this is the right way to love Him in our actions, not just our words.

Devotional

What areas in your life do you feel are compromised in terms of the authenticity of your relationship with Jesus?

I’d like to invite you to close your eyes and ask the Holy Spirit to show you areas in your life where you have made compromises. If you can clearly see an area where you are making compromises, use the opportunity to say this prayer, or your own:

Lord Jesus, thank you for suffering and dying on the cross to free me from my sins. Please forgive me for not always responding with conviction against the sins of the world. Please help me Holy Spirit to make intentional decisions so that I may live – and help others live – a life that is a living testimony to you. In your mighty, holy name I pray, Amen.

Angela Chiaberta

I am a volunteer blogger with a passion for God and writing. My hope is to help others choose faith – or to walk deeper in their faith – through my own introspections and observations.

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While I enjoy experimenting with different seasonings and flavors, I’ll admit that my taste probably leans toward the more conventional end of the palate spectrum (if you know you know). Growing up in a Finnish household, our meals were typically seasoned with salt, pepper, and onions, which were our go-to staples. It wasn’t until adulthood that I began exploring more spices, gradually adding “exotic” flavors like oregano, thyme, and rosemary. I still remember feeling quite proud the first time I made rosemary chicken; it felt like a culinary milestone.

The Spice Aisle: A Whole New World

What I wasn’t prepared for when I moved to Africa was the jolt to my senses upon first encountering bold flavors like curry, cumin, and turmeric. These spices were unfamiliar to someone raised on salt, pepper, and onions.

In the open food markets here, the “spice aisle” looks nothing like the ones I knew back home (Publix and Winn-Dixie in the USA). Spices aren’t stored in climate-controlled shops or sealed containers. Instead, they’re piled high in open sacks, sold in bulk, and displayed in full view. Shoppers move slowly, touching, tasting, and comparing. There are no labels needed. The air itself carries a mix of spicy and earthy scents that naturally guide you there. It’s not polished, but it’s practical.

Lessons from the Market

I’ve learned many lessons from those spice aisles as I’ve tried some of the mysterious mixes from the market. For one, I discovered I really love spices, though some of them don’t always love me back (let the reader understand). I appreciate the variety they bring and how they transform simple ingredients into something special.

I also learned that spices lose their flavor over time, a surprising lesson for me. Perhaps the hardest lesson I’m still learning is finding the right balance: the perfect amount of spices for each recipe. The best method I’ve found is to taste as you go, adjusting the mix until it feels just right.

And when tasting, use a new spoon each time—no double-dipping, please!

Carry Your Saltshaker

I carry a saltshaker with me wherever I go, not the kind from the kitchen (see Mark 9:50)—but one that symbolizes the flavor of my words and actions. Just as salt enhances food, my speech and behavior add flavor to my life.

Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one. Colossians 4:6 NKJV

The aroma this mixture creates is the way I live and interact, and it can either attract others or push them away. It’s a subtle but powerful reminder that how I “season” my life matters, affecting whether people care or ignore.

The Spice of Life

Living a dull, unseasoned life is much simpler since it avoids the hassle of learning how to mix spices. It’s easier to live unseasoned, but it’s also the most boring. Life, like food, becomes more engaging and vibrant when we add seasoning.

Naturally, people are drawn to someone whose life is full of spice. The saltiness in their conversations, actions, and presence sparks a desire in others for connection and for more of what they offer.

Remember to take your saltshaker with you when you leave the house. Sooner or later, someone is bound to say, “Pass me the salt, please.”

Consider

If you’re ready to live a life with a bit more flavor—more boldness, kindness, and purpose—begin today by carrying your saltshaker wherever you go. Notice how your words and actions add seasoning to everyday moments and invite others to taste something better.

Closing Prayer

God, help me remember to carry my saltshaker every day—the way I speak, the things I do. Let my life be flavorful and authentic, something that makes people want to know more. Teach me how to add just the right amount of seasoning so I don’t overwhelm, but encourage and inspire. Use me to bring a little extra taste of Your love into the world. Amen.

P.S. For an authentic taste of Finland, check out some recipes here – they aren’t always bland!

Lea Peters

Lea Peters has been a pastor’s wife and missionary since 1987. She has served alongside her husband, Jamie, planting churches and establishing faith-based community outreaches in Africa. She has four children and two grandchildren.

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I’ve somehow gotten grouped into the “older” generation. It wasn’t that long ago that I was on the other side of the generational curve, telling everyone else what was new and the newest trend. I don’t find this new reality that I’m facing, my mortality, comfortable. Have I become out of style myself? Have I passed my “best before” date?

In the grocery store, “best before” dates are stamped on the products lining the aisles. Some have longer “best before” dates than others; some products have dates 2 to 3 years from when they are purchased. That’s the kind of product I aspire to be—best before many years into the future.

Still usable

In reality, many items we reject in stores because their “best before” dates are close or even past are still usable. I saw a news report about a store in Europe that uses these rejected items to help low-income families. The savings passed on to those in society who are more vulnerable have been remarkable.

Truth is never out of date; it never expires. It may have different wrappings from generation to generation, but at its core, it remains constant. What was attractive wrapping 50 years ago, helping people understand what was being said, doesn’t necessarily speak the same to those receiving the message today. A different wrapping might be required.

Socially acceptable

What seems to be overlooked in the noise we create while striving to present ourselves as socially acceptable may divert us from sharing the truth openly. Failing to speak the truth can be as harmful as denying it. Without exposure, truth remains misunderstood by its audience, and when finally expressed, it feels foreign.

Dear brothers I am not writing out a new rule for you to obey, for it is an old one you have always had, right from the start. You have heard it all before. Yet it is always new and works for you…
1 John 2:7,8a TLB

The truth is trustworthy, unlike fallible methods. It remains constant. Trying to present the truth in a way that is acceptable to the masses is often impossible, as the truth can hurt before it heals. Truth is like that “faithful friend” who won’t let us down:

Faithful are the wounds of a friend. But the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.
Proverbs 27:6 NKJ

What is truth?

In our present-day age of political correctness, the truth of God’s word gets silenced by the static of the world. What we are experiencing today reminds me of a time in Israel’s history when no king or ruler existed. They had no governing power over them.

So the children of Israel departed from there at that time, every man to his tribe and family; they went out from there, every man to his inheritance. In those days there was no king in Israel; everyone did what was right in his own eyes.
Judges 21: 24,25 NKJV

This lack of centralized leadership led to chaos, moral decline, and oppression by Israel’s enemies. God did not want Israel to have a king; He wanted to lead the people Himself. In 1 Samuel 8, the people went to the prophet Samuel and said, “Now make us a king to judge us like all the other nations” (See vs. 5). Instead of allowing God to lead them through His appointed judges, they resisted the words of the judges God appointed over them which resulted in chaos. The people rejected God’s leadership and wanted to do what everyone else was doing. They preferred lies over truth (see Romans 1:24-26). The fallen nature of humankind will automatically resist truth for a lie.

This refusal of God’s preference plunged the nation into a profound decline. By the end of the era of kings, 42 kings and one queen had ruled over God’s people. Their reigns together lasted around 520 years. (Click here for more information, if you are brave, to read more about the time of the kings.)

A mystery

Why we choose to follow our own paths instead of God’s remains a mystery. God, who has consistently proven His faithfulness, receives the same rejection from us today as He did from Israel all those years ago.

When we encounter trouble, our instinctive reaction is determining our next step. Instead of seeking God’s guidance, we look for solutions elsewhere. When we reach the limits of our efforts, we throw our hands up in frustration and exclaim, “There’s no way out of this!” At that moment, we bow and ask God for an answer. We then discover that the answer has always been with us.

Thomas said to Him, “Lord, we do not know where You are going, and how can we know the way?” Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me. “If you had known Me, you would have known My Father also; and from now on you know Him and have seen Him.”
John 14:5-7 NKJV

It’s easy to blame Thomas for being so thick. He had spent much time with Jesus, seen miracles, and wondered which way to go. Jesus answered, “I am the way.” He went on and added “the truth, and the life.”

Leading others to discover the better way

In our ever-changing society, which searches for answers everywhere except God, we have the privilege of showing people around us that there is a better way. The better way is found in Jesus, who brings us to truth and life. But before we can show others the way, we must be convinced that God’s ways are the best.

Have you overlooked some of God’s truths that you believed were relevant to previous generations? Perhaps you think those ways have surpassed their “best before” dates and are no longer applicable today.

Cultures change with each group of people and even evolve with every generation. The way God’s truth is presented can vary depending on the context. What works in England likely won’t be effective in Thailand. However, the essence of the truth must be conveyed without dilution, regardless of the presentation style. Therein we find Jesus speaking, leading us in the way, the truth, and the life.

Challenge

I encourage you today to dig deep. Take a moment to reflect on how you walk with Jesus. Do you let Him lead, or have you been like Israel, wanting to be like everyone else? Jesus’ ways are perfect, and His paths lead us to life. Trust Him today.

Lea Peters

Lea Peters has been a pastor’s wife and missionary since 1987. She has served alongside her husband, Jamie, planting churches and establishing faith-based community outreaches in Africa. She has four children and two grandchildren.

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Come Home | Creative Retreat

 

We had wonderful feedback from our first retreat that took place in April 2024! This is a deeply spiritual, meditative experience that we believe will enhance your ability to create from a place of connection with the Father.

 

The retreat will be facilitated by two missionaries who have a heart and passion for the arts, Chloe Snyder and Kirstin Nobbs.

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Paulshof, Johannesburg

Friday 11 October 18:45 – 20:15

Saturday 12 October 09:00 – 13:00

Need to request sponsorship? Email kate@cupoffaith.co.za

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Kate Walsh

Kate is the current owner and editor of Cup of Faith. She is a blogger who loves Jesus, loves to read, and currently lives in Johannesburg with her husband.

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One of my favourite places to be is the bi-annual Tierlandtynkies market festival in Pretoria. Every inch of space is filled with delightful treasures for my magpie eyes, handmade or curated by fun, smart and engaging entrepreneurs. Most of them are female, including the events’ brain-moms: Ronel and Lorette (who happen to also be two of the kindest people you will ever meet). The market is held on church property but it’s far from the stereotypical koeksister and secondhand book market we’ve come to expect from church fetes. I know because I assist my husband with his stall there for the past few years and have come to expect to be pleasantly surprised with the jewellery, fashion, accessories, decor and more from small businesses.

We are one week away from the next market and so I simply must write a piece I’ve been keeping from you for a while! At the last market, I spoke to some of the vendors about what it takes to run their businesses. Our conversations reminded me of the creative industry demonstrated by the Proverbs 31 woman. Reading over my notes, I am amazed at the depth of wisdom experience has taught them. I’ve distilled their advice into ten important ingredients for the modern day female entrepreneur:

1. Excellence

Give her of the fruit of her hands,
and let her works praise her in the gates. (Proverbs 31:31 NKJV)

There can be no entrepreneurship without excellence. Cutting corners is a big no-no and will catch up with you at some point. Customers are not easily fooled by shoddy work so a thriving small business requires that one always puts the best foot forward.

2. Leadership

She rises while it is yet night
and provides food for her household
and portions for her maidens. (Proverbs 31:15)

A good leader sacrifices for staff: one entrepreneur admitted that she would take money from her personal accounts to pay her staff if the business had bad months. But becoming a good leader also requires learning how to follow. Ronel recommended finding a mentor and meeting once a month to learn from.

3. Unique Solutions

She considers a field and buys it (Proverbs 31:16a)

One of the most competitive genres for small businesses is jewellry. Amorique from Mark of A explained to me how her desire to create beautiful items was partly born from the frustration of not being able to find rings that fit her fingers. She encourages anyone with new ideas to never ever try to fit in as building your business on the basis of comparison will only yield flat and boring results. If you’re someone interested in creative ideas, I highly recommend the ‘Made to Create’ 6 week Bible Study.

Kies is where I met the awesome Purpose & Proverbs team. What kind and inspirational ladies!

4. Godly Direction

Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain,
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. (Proverbs 31:30)

Pray, pray and pray for inspiration and direction from God. One lady shared with me how, in the difficulty of navigating her sales through the COVID pandemic, she and her business partner waited on God for a word in prayer. Once they felt that they had received direction, they acted on it in faith and continued to repeat it to themselves throughout challenges. Another lady shared that her desire to pivot her business started deep within her heart. Once she followed that inspiration, things quickly fell into place from her which she interprets as evidence of God’s grace and direction.

One of my first Tierlandtynkies markets as a barista back in 2014

5. Boldness

She is not afraid of snow for her household (Proverbs 31:21a)

Fear of failure is one of the largest barriers to success for anything, entrepreneurship included. Owning and running a small business takes a stomach for risk.

6. Attention to Detail

She looks well to the ways of her household (Proverbs 31:27a)

Toni, owner of Toni’s Pizza, emphasised that attention to detail is key. Know where every single cent is going. Ronel affirmed that being hands-on is vital for the health of your business.

7. Communication

She opens her mouth with wisdom (Proverbs 31:26a)

Clarity in branding helps customers to understand what you are offering them. Nini of Eat-a-bit shared that rebranding resulted in an increase in sales! Same business, same product, same owner, but improved communication! She went on to explain that she loves to chat with her customers and get a feel for what they do and don’t like. She uses this valuable information to improve her products and even as a place to find free ideas for new products.

8. Flexibility

Strength and dignity are her clothing,
and she laughs at the time to come. (Proverbs 31:25)

One just cannot prepare for every eventuality. Wisdom and planning are great but when things go wrong, good entrepreneurs think on their feet to solve the problem. There’s nothing wrong with having a little cry of course! But never allow despair to prevent you from tackling unforeseen challenges.

9. Family

Her children rise up and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her (Proverbs 31:28)

A couple of the ladies I spoke to mentioned how important family support is. It reminded me of how supportive my husband has been of my vision for this blog, Cup of Faith. One lady had her baby with her at her stand. She explained that she wants her daughter to be included into her life and so, with the support of parents and her husband, she bravely chooses to combine childcare with running her stand. Now that’s one advantage of being your own boss: autonomous parenting!

Helping Kendrick running his stall at Kies in April 2024

10. Hard Work

She rises while it is yet night (Proverbs 31:15a)
She … does not eat the bread of idleness. (Proverbs 31:27b)

There is no substitute for hard work. A common theme with all the women I spoke to was grit: giving it all and willingly giving up time to invest into nurturing the business into what you envision it to be. These women are not afraid to wake up early and go to bed late – something they share with the Proverbs 31 woman!

If you are around Pretoria next week I encourage you to come by and meet some of the incredible vendors!

You can find details about the market on Facebook.

Kate Walsh

Kate is the current owner and editor of Cup of Faith. She is a blogger who loves Jesus, loves to read, and currently lives in Johannesburg with her husband.

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There’s no getting through this Christian journey without addressing the question, what does God want me to do with my life? Trevor Hudson tackles this topic with the book written under the bold title, Discovering God’s Will For Your Life: A User’s Guide to Discernment.

This short but impactful book has three main outcomes: latching into God’s vision for your life, defining discernment, and taking action on what we learn. Hudson encourages individual application of his points with short exercises found in the book. 

Discovering God’s Will for Your Life (Trevor Hudson): Published by Struik Christian Media. Available wherever books are sold.

Discernment involves recognising God’s active presence and voice so that we can respond to what God is doing and saying, and bring our lives into more harmony with God’s dream for our world. Quote p. 51

Hudson deftly explores discernment of God’s personal will through our lives through scripture, circumstances, the Holy Spirit, our giftings and conversations with those who know us well. He draws from personal experience and decades of pastoral experience. The pages of this book almost radiate with the sage and gentleness you would expect from a seventy-year-plus old pastor who is still pouring out his life for the Father and his children. Expect less ‘name it and claim it’ type ra-ra moments and more slower, head-nodding ‘a-ha!’ moments.

Our personal calling is the place where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet. – Trevor Hudson

One of Hudson’s key principles to discerning God’s personal will for your life is to reflect on what you have learnt in your life experiences. The wisdom of experience is only unlocked, he explains, when one takes the time to reflect on the success and failure of circumstances. This is probably why the book is laden with ‘discernment exercises’ to put the knowledge found in these pages into immediate action.

What I loved most about this book was its simple practicality. It is straightforward and easy to understand but acts a teaser to go deeper with God for oneself. I personally loved Hudson’s reflection on spiritual consolation and spiritual desolation, a principle I have used since in trying to discern next steps in decisions.

This book is not for anyone who is looking for an easy way to hear God’s voice for themselves. It is rather a book for those looking to forge spiritual ‘tools’ for their lifelong ‘discernment toolbox’. 

I hope you will pick up a copy of this book and be encouraged to seek out God’s personal will for your life!

This book was kindly sent to me by Struik Christian Media for review. All views expressed are my own.

Kate Walsh

Kate is the current owner and editor of Cup of Faith. She is a blogger who loves Jesus, loves to read, and currently lives in Johannesburg with her husband.

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