Some scriptures require a bigger ‘meditation’ response than others. The beatitudes are so countercultural that I have to let them sit in my mind, steeping, in order to receive and believe them. ‘Blessed are the merciful.’ In our urban, digital, cancel-culture, social keyboard warrior society, mercy is a concept that is not often acknowledged. In fact, although I felt drawn to write about mercy for our Beatitutdes theme this month, I wasn’t entirely sure what it meant to me.

His mercy in scripture

As I was pondering mercy, two specific passages I read during my devotional times displayed spoke to me about God’s merciful nature:

“I will betroth you to Me forever;

Yes, I will betroth you to Me

In righteousness and justice,

In lovingkindness and mercy;

I will betroth you to Me in faithfulness,

And you shall know the Lord.

 

“It shall come to pass in that day

That I will answer,” says the Lord;

“I will answer the heavens,

And they shall answer the earth.

The earth shall answer

With grain,

With new wine,

And with oil;

They shall answer Jezreel.

Then I will sow her for Myself in the earth,

And I will have mercy on her who had not obtained mercy;

Then I will say to those who were not My people,

‘You are My people!’

And they shall say, ‘You are my God!’ ” Hosea 2:19-23

This is a prophecy about the Gentiles who would be grafted into the family of God through Jesus’ sacrifice. We were once outside of the jurisdiction of mercy but God chose to extend it to us. The context of Hosea is a story of profound mercy. Hosea is called to prophetically wed a prostitute who is addicted to her life of sexual promiscuity. He loses her over and over again but diligently seeks her out each time to bring her back home. She eventually winds up in a slave market. She is standing naked on the podium and Hosea pays her slave price to cover her body with his coat and lead her back home once more.

Hosea’s wife surely deserved to be left to the results of her wanton wanderings. Instead she is given a protective covering. She is shown mercy. How many times have I wandered away from God’s? Too many times and in states too shameful to describe in such a public forum!

The next story hinted towards God’s mercy was the woman with the issue of blood:

Now a woman, having a flow of blood for twelve years, who had spent all her livelihood on physicians and could not be healed by any, came from behind and touched the border of His garment. And immediately her flow of blood stopped.

And Jesus said, “Who touched Me?”

When all denied it, Peter and those with him said, “Master, the multitudes throng and press You, and You say, ‘Who touched Me?’ ”

But Jesus said, “Somebody touched Me, for I perceived power going out from Me.” Now when the woman saw that she was not hidden, she came trembling; and falling down before Him, she declared to Him in the presence of all the people the reason she had touched Him and how she was healed immediately.

And He said to her, “Daughter, be of good cheer; your faith has made you well. Go in peace.” Luke 8:43-48

I think absolutely any story of Jesus’ healing miracles would fit into a discussion of God’s mercy. Jesus has such mercy on people in their suffering. Sometimes our earthly view of suffering can be harsh and judgemental. Surely this was the woman’s lot in life? She was born with an issue of blood and that was her cross to bear. Her physical suffering was a trial that would teach her to have a humble character. At least that’s how I would reason it in my human mind. But she saw something about Jesus. She saw the compassion and mercy he extended to people. She had faith that he was a man who would be willing to take away what others had told her to accept. I want to be like her.

Situational relief

She believed that he would do more than express pity and sympathy. In discussing the ‘blessed are the merciful’, Dr Martyn Lloyd Jones explains:

“It does not mean pity; it means a great desire and indeed an endeavour to do something to relieve a situation.”*

He differentiates grace from mercy:

“Grace is especially associated with men in their sins; mercy is especially associated with men in their misery… grace looks down upon sin as a whole, mercy looks especially upon the miserable consequences of sin.”*

I get the feeling that God’s mercy means I won’t always ‘get what I deserve’. While grace leads me to favour and eternal blessing, freedom from the slavery of sin, mercy is a covering over my mistakes and the consequences of living in a fallen world. 

Extending mercy to others

When was the last time I extended mercy to someone? When was the last time I protected someone from pain, or from hurt, from the harsh conditions of life in this world? I struggle to come up with anything! I feel like the Levite priest who crossed to the other side of the road, fearing contamination. I remember hearing an observation about people’s attitude towards the merciful actions of Mother Theresea: everyone respects her. But no one wants to be her.

Prayer

Lord, You desire that as recipients of your mercy we are in turn merciful to others. Help us not to hide from others’ needs but to seek to urgently relieve them of pain and suffering. Remove earthly judgemental attitudes, remove despair, remove actionless pity, and instead give us the heart Jesus had when he so mercifully healed so many people. Amen.

*References

Lloyd-Jones, D. M. (1971). Studies in the Sermon on the Mount. William B. Eerdmans Publishing Company.

Kate Walsh

Kate is the current owner and editor of Cup of Faith. She is a blogger who loves Jesus, loves to read, and currently lives in Johannesburg with her husband.

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But I say, love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you. Matthew 5:44 NLT

We live in a world where loving those who love us back feels natural, and loving those who have hurt us feels almost impossible. Yet, in Matthew 5, Jesus gives us a deeper call: to love our enemies, to pray for those who persecute us, and to love not based on familiarity or reward but rooted in obedience and Christ-like compassion.

This blog is a personal reflection on that exact kind of love. It’s about what it means to live out a Kingdom standard when the world gives you every reason not to. And how obedience, not comfort, is often where the love of Christ shines the brightest.

Divine Encounters in Unexpected Places

Some days begin so ordinarily, yet end with a whisper from heaven.

It was a fateful day when I decided I’d go grocery shopping. I had planned out exactly what I needed and was excited to stock up. But little did I know that what started as a simple errand would become a heart check — a moment where God would gently redefine what love looks like.

After collecting my items and heading to the till, I realized with a sinking feeling that I didn’t have my bank card. I panicked a little, but strangely, I felt a quiet peace in my heart that everything would be okay. I asked the cashier if I could leave and return with my card, and thankfully, they agreed.

Because I didn’t live too far away, I considered walking. But to speed things up, I ordered an Uber. What I didn’t expect was that this Uber ride would minister to me more than any sermon that day.

The driver was warm, thoughtful, and soon our small talk turned into deep conversation. He asked me about my faith, my relationship with God, and I could tell immediately: this man knew the Lord.

He shared how he had recently been discipling a young man — an 18-year-old who had lost both of his parents. This young man had been suicidal, caught in hopelessness, until this very Uber driver reached out and began walking with him through healing, helping him find work and a reason to live again.

Naturally, I assumed the driver worked with youth. “Oh wow, do you serve young people in your community?” I asked.

His answer stunned me: “No, actually, I’ve never done this before. I didn’t even know this young man. We connected on Facebook, and the Holy Spirit told me to reach out to him.”

That was all he needed — a prompting from the Holy Spirit. And because he obeyed, someone’s life was changed.

I couldn’t stop thinking about it. This man didn’t need to know this teenager to love him. He didn’t need a title, a church program, or a personal connection. He simply obeyed God and loved someone who didn’t “earn” it.

The Uber driver taught me something profound: obedience can look like love. He loved a stranger with his time, his care, his prayers. And it wasn’t just emotional — it was spiritual. It was a choice.

Who Are Our Enemies, Really?

This blog piece is personal because “love your enemies” has been a journey I know well.

We often define enemies the way the world does — villains in movies, abusive exes, jealous co-workers. But I’ve come to see that sometimes, your greatest enemies are people who have deeply hurt you — and once that pain sinks in, it can feel like the love you once had for them dies with it.

For me, that pain came during the breakdown of my family. When my parents divorced, I saw things I never imagined I would. Pain tore through my home, and with it came versions of my family that were angry, cold, distant, and broken. And brokenness has a way of revealing people’s worst sides.

But in the same season that I was trying to protect my heart, God was calling me to love.

Loving Through Brokenness

There is an ease in loving people who love you well. But when love asks you to stretch — to stay soft in the middle of betrayal, to forgive what still stings — it becomes clear that this is a supernatural love.

It was the Holy Spirit who kept pulling me toward forgiveness, not because others deserved it, but because I did not deserve the grace God gave me either.

I am not more righteous than the next person. I’m not better than anyone who has wronged me. That kind of humility doesn’t come naturally, but it does come when you spend time with God, when you realize just how much He loves you despite your own flaws.

The commandment to love the Lord your God, love yourself, and love others isn’t a light suggestion. It’s the foundation of a full life in Christ. And “others” doesn’t mean just those who are good to you. It includes the complicated, the painful, and the unpredictable. The ones who test your growth. The ones you’re still learning to forgive.

Love Is a Lifestyle, Not a Feeling

One of the greatest lessons I’ve learned is that love is not a reward system. It’s not something we give to those who earn it. It’s a posture. A way of life.

That Uber driver taught me something profound: Obedience can look like love. He loved a stranger with his time, his care, his prayers. And it wasn’t emotional. It was spiritual. It was a decision.

God’s Word doesn’t ask us to love when we feel like it. It calls us to love because that’s who He is.

Jesus Himself said in Matthew 5:46–47:

“If you love only those who love you, what reward is there for that? Even corrupt tax collectors do that much… If you are kind only to your friends, how are you different from anyone else?”

When we love like the world, we blend in. When we love like Christ, we stand out. Because that kind of love transforms.

Reflecting the Heart of the Father

The last verse in this passage always used to intimidate me:

“But you are to be perfect, even as your Father in heaven is perfect.” Matthew 5:48
But I’ve learned that this verse isn’t demanding flawlessness — it’s pointing us to maturity. It’s an invitation to grow up into the fullness of who God is. To love like Him.

God gives sunlight and rain to the good and the evil alike. He doesn’t withhold His kindness because of our sin. That’s the love we’ve received, and now, that’s the love we’re called to give.

When I reflect on my own story — the hardened heart that God softened, the pain that He is still healing — I realize this kind of love can change lives. It changed mine. And it will change yours, too.

Becoming the Bible Some Have Never Read

My mentor once told me, “Some people will never open the Bible, but they will encounter God through your life.”

That’s never left me.

Your life, your love, your kindness — these are testimonies. You don’t need a pulpit. Your work desk is a pulpit. Your WhatsApp chats are a pulpit. Your dinner table is a pulpit.

Every day, we get the chance to reflect God not just with our words but with our love.

So how do we love our enemies?

We start by praying for them. Even when it’s hard. Especially when it’s hard.

We ask God to soften our hearts, to help us see them the way He does. We surrender our desire to be right, to get even, to stay offended. We ask Him to make us whole so we can love from a healed place — not a bleeding one.

And we remember: we were loved before we ever loved Him.

Takeaways:

• Loving your enemies isn’t about their worthiness — it’s about your obedience.
• Forgiveness is part of your healing journey.
• Love is a lifestyle — not a reaction.
• Your life may be the only Bible some people will read.
• We love because Christ loved us first.

Spend time this week asking God:

Who have I withheld love from? Who do I need to forgive — or begin praying for — even if I don’t feel ready to love them yet?

Write their names down. Pray over them. Ask the Holy Spirit to help you take the first step. You don’t need to feel it — you just need to be willing.

If you’ve been on the receiving end of love that healed you, take time to thank God for the people He used. Then, go be that person for someone else.

Chola Tshilanga

Hi, I’m Chola Tshilanga! A passionate content creator and digital expert using her gift of writing to help others live a more intentional life in God while fulfilling their purpose, using God’s word as a compass.

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